How do I tell my parents that I got molested as a kid by my cousin without making them freak out too much?
It's been about twelve or eleven years since the indecent and I fell like I should tell them
Just tell them. I told my grandmother and my mother that I was molested by a cousin when I was eight. They were shocked but didn't freak out. I told them when I was 18 or 19.
>>17839999
>be me
>older brother molests me
>confide in my boyfriend
>he tells EVERYONE after i break up with him
>probably should have seen that coming.
>family finds out
>they demand an answer
>i say its true, and i confided and then shit hit the ceiling fan
>dad says i made it up for attention
I molested my cousin when I was little
I think she hasnt said anything because she enjoyed it too, but I would probably kill myself if my family knew
Unless it still is a problem today and it is causing yoi trouble today then you shouldn't talk about ir, you arw only goinf to cause troubke for your family. Howdver you should put yourself above your family if this issue is affecting you directly then by all means be selfish, you are more important than your family (this s
Would apply in cases of like your father continousky getting in your bed and similar)
If you have a trauma talk about it to a psychologist or psychiatrist
Sorey for the bad grammar, I?m drunk right nks
>>17840011
It's a pretty normal reaction for a family member to think it's bullshit.
My parents found out my uncle touched me, my sister and cousins. They blamed everyone else for ' leaving' using around him and are in denial. They don't understand why I don't want to be around him. Basically, it changed nothing. And you just say it, there is no ' easy' way. Goodluck.