I'm 19 and virgin because I'm afraid of sex. When I jerk off over the foreskin it's fine, but actually touching my bell head hurts like hell. What do?
>>17839070
Keep your head exposed, so it gets less sensitive.
>>17839089
this
expose it when you go to sleep, you'll slowly wear it over time, and sleeping is the least unconfortable time to do that
So is this actually a normal problem?
>>17839169
completely. Also take this with a grain of salt because I'm a virgin, but I'm fairly sure the sensitivity is not an issue when having sex because she's going to be wet.
Same thing used to happen to me when I was a virgin. Do what anons have said, try to keep the head exposed and touch it more. When you shower, clean it thoroughly with your hands and let the water hit it. When you are going to jerk off, try to touch your gland before actually masturbating. The point is trying to make it less sensitive to touch. This plus actually having sex helped me and now I have a normal and healthy penis.
My ex boyfriend was an uncircumcised virgin. Oral apparently felt really good on him, and he got less sensitive over time, until we were able to have sex. You'll do great!
Try doing the same thing but with lube to see if there's any difference.
You shouldve lost the sensitivity when you were a daily wanking 16 year old.
Take showers and clean around the inside of the foreskin, takes a week or two.