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Hi /adv/,
I'm very inexperienced and need your advice here. So there's this guy who I've been hanging out with one-on-one at least once every week (started almost a month ago) He is the one suggesting we do sth together most of the time but has never clarified whether they're dates or not. I suppose they were dates because he would sometimes put his arms around me. But I have no idea if we're going steady or when we become "official".
So now I've been kinda wondering - is it wise initiate holding hands with a guy when you're not sure about your relationship status? Is this something guys only do when they are serious and will it scare them off when you do it too early on?
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>>17838933
Bump
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>>17838933
Sounds like he's really into you and afraid to make a move, probably because he's afraid to scare you off.
I say go for it, if u take his hand it'll give him the greenlight he's been waiting for.
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>>17838933
oh christ what century are we in, the fucking XXIII???
Just kiss him already
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>>17838933
Men only give consistent attention to a woman they're pursing and making any effort to make physical contact
(especially hugs, playful jabs etc) is a way of "testing the waters"
Give him a hug but don't let go right away, you'll have your answer.
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>>17839069
Do that, and he'll be sure he's in the friendzone, if he isn't already...
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>>17838933
I'd ask him if this is a date. Are you dating other guys or him other girls?
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>>17839069
We have hugged once, maybe I will try again some time and see what happens.
>>17839124
I am not dating anyone else and I dont think he is either because we both dont have many activities outside of work and sport clubs.
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Always go for the dick
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