I'm about to try to get a guy to have sex with me (I'm

Go to an Adult Novelty/Sex Shop and look for the lube Gun Oil or whatever.
If you have any questions just ask the cashiet, theyre usually knowledgeable on lubes.

so, you want to lose your virginity by having gay anal sex? dude... how about taking things slow?
anyways, relaxation is key. do you do anal play when masturbating already? use plugs and dildos? if not, start NOW to get used to it or it might hurt like a motherfucker.
any lube will do. water and silicone based ones preferably.

>>17838345
That is very helpful.
I was mostly aiming for some dick-sucking but I wanted to be prepared in case things escalated.
As far as anal play goes, I mostly just use my fingers, but I should probably get a dildo.

>>17838373
yeah, stick to sucking or if he's more experienced, ask to top the first time.
if you actually get to habe anal sex, make sure he or you first prepare your asshole. get yourself to relax with a rimjob and some fingering first. during anal, frequently remind yourself to relax. remind to breath. if you breath, you can't also be very tense. tensing up can lead to pain, so breathing is good. maybe have a drink first so you are a bit losened up

Enjoy burning in hell, faggot.

>>17838384
If all goes according to plan, we will be 420 blazing it, so I will be as relaxed as I can be. And I'm sure fingering will also help.
Thanks for the /adv/ice

>>17838340
>Being a catcher
The Romans would have just written you off as a slave.

>>17838409
I'm into both (pitching and catching). However being a sex slave doesn't sound bad to me.

On a budget? Go to the grocery store and buy a cucumber of appropriate size and some baby oil. Finger you butt with the oil, get it nice and relaxed, then microwave the cucumber for 20 sec. or so. Spread oil on it and work it in slow. Best to do it will on you back, propped up and looking in a mirror.

>>17838385
Hell is not real.

>>17838340

if you dont know what lubricant to use than chances are oyu arent ready for a cock in you, its not like a finger.

general advice is start out slow, dont go full anal.

but if you absolutely must do anal, then PREPARE YOUR ANUS. literally. after teh enema take the lube and fuck urself silly iwth something. push out like you're taking a shit.

but by the time you're ready for the cock you'll be exhausted, assuming you can get there at all.

be willing to compromise on positions. porno makes certain ones look hot and they are impractical for real life use. and even the practical ones arent as fun in person because you're seeing it from your pov not a camera. and others simply just arent going to work for how oyu adn the top lien up

>>17838343
This is a good lube, but it's expensive, isn't it?

I use a water based anal lube that I just get off of Amazon, it works great both for anal and vaginal.

>>17840243
Also yeah, first time I did anal I could get 2 fingers in my ass and felt prepared. The tip went in and my vision went entirely black from pain, and I fell on the floor. Get like 4 fingers in there at least, okay? Don't over-estimate yourself.

But I am a female and was really young when that happened, I was probably just thinking it would be like a vagina in the department of stretching.

>>17840243
Little bit yeah.
Any water based lube works tho, KY is fine.