Is it weird that I have no interest in talking to girls platonically unless they can help me get a gf? I don't hate them or anything, but once I determine she's not available or interested in being with me I just stop talking to her. I figure why waste my time on something that doesn't help me with my goal.
Being "just friends" with a girl has its benefits. First off, many girls dont become interested in a guy until they have known him for a while - it can take time to develop attraction to someone. You never know when one of your female friends will start to feel a little different about you. That aside, attractive friends have other attractive friends. She can introduce you to new girls that you may be interested in.
>>17838083
this anon is correct and you said it yourself OP
female friends are always a plus, because even if you find them repulsive they might have hot friends
>>17838107
>>17838083
So literally the only reason is they could set you up with their friends or they could get interested later?
They're right. Op you're stupid. How can I be your boyfriend if I haven't gotten to know you first? I could be uninterested at first but begin to love you the more I know about you. Shutting me out before that has a chance to happen is unreasonable
>>17838132
>anon you should have let me get to know you first! I can't just rush into a relationship!
>anon you Should have said something! Why did you wait so long? I'm sorry I just see you as a friend
Reminder that OPs real problem is just being unnatractive
>>17838132
Desu that just sounds like groveling to me
>keep being nice to me and maybe I'll date you or Introduce you to my friends teeheexD
>>17838039
No
Chances are interacting with girls is going to be a net loss
And i don't mean they are mean or anything they are just really incompetent
Unless you find one who isn't but chances are it won't happen because a woman who can think k like a man will dominate the world
>>17838083
Unless she decided to keep you as backup and only introduces you to her ugly friends if she does it at all
>Meet girl
>Make it clear you are interested in dating
>If she isnt move on
Easy as that
>>17838122
Also women use social proof, So if you are friends with one girl and she has friends, all of her friends will become your friends if you aren't a sperg lord.
But honestly I'm right there with you OP. Its okay bro. I just tell them "I couldn't be your friend anyways I think you are too attractive". Great way to dodge friendzone special attack.