How the fuck do you guys work up the motivation to keep asking girls out when you keep getting knocked back and ignored over and over again? Should I just kms?
Why don't you take a minute to think why you keep getting rejected. And then work on those points.
>>17831203
Do you "play the numbers game"? I mean, do you just ask a lot of girls out hoping one will say "yes"?
Because if you do that, you see a lot more rejection that other people. If you don't pick and choose, then you feel worse about yourself.
>>17831233
I have never asked a girl out. Why should I when they will just reject me?
>>17831236
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Do you realize that if you don't put yourself out there and try then it's your fault, not the girls' fault, right?
>>17831203
I don't mind if I learn something. It is paying your tuition.
Try to pick, to make a plan (next time she goes for a drink...) and if it doesn't work try to correct and improve.
>>17831236
Just do it. Men are easily manipulable by women unless you have a hard crust. That crust develops by sucesive burning.
>>17831203
the key difference between the alpha and the beta is that the alpha realizes that rejection literally means nothing.
sure they are hotter, taller, etc. but they still get rejected. a lot. its not even a secret. they arent hiding it. they just dont whine about it like the beta does.
girls are not magical vagina monsters. they do not have a secret facebook group where they keep track of how many times a boy has been rejected. there is no cloaked man in the sky keeping a scoreboard.
men approach woman becuase it is custom. it is a womans job to say yes or no depending on if there is chemistry. more than anything, that is what a girl wants: chemistry. she wants to feel those tingles that make her feel like you are special and you talking to her makes you special.
plenty of hot amazing men DONT give them those tingles. some do.
but the alph realizes that it is not an insult to him if a girl is not a match. its simply just that: not a match.
>>17831203
I dont, I just stay at home on the Internet.