I'm in need of help from my alpha bros.
So I graduated, but not completely done, and came across a job that makes an incredible amount of money. I bought a nice car and got a gym membership afterwards too. I still live with my parents until I finish up with my bachelors and pay off my car. All of my friends are working low paying jobs and are always busy. I want to make new friends and I don't know where to start. I'm a 6'1 22 year old male, but I look like I'm 16. I think I look 7/10. I have a tough time starting conversations with random people in public but I can carry a conversation afterwards.
I'm just tired of going out and eating alone or staying in and binge watching a show. I would like to make more male friends but I prefer to talk to females. Tinder has failed me. What can I do?
what qualifies as incredible
>>17830078
$40/hr starting. I normally pay for meals when I'm out with my friends and would have no problem doing so any other time.
>>17830096
jesus, the hell did you major in?
find a hobby you can engage in with a group. Learning and instrument and joining a band is a great start.
>>17830125
It's a tough job though and I only work on the weekends from 6-2. I don't think I'm really one for a band. Any alternatives?
You pay for their food? wtf
I was in the exact same boat as you, still am, so I don't have any friend advice except that I never could figure it out and now I have absolutely zero desire to make friends with anyone. You've got a got a great financial head start in life, so before blowing any more money on stupid shit like a nice car:
Set up an emergency fund, and then max out your 401k and IRA because since you live with your folks you're not going to have much to itemize and your taxes will be insane.
>>17830134
tabletop gaming, maybe. or become a car enthusiast since you have a nice one.
>>17830138
I've been saving money my entire life and I still have a lot to toss into my savings after all my expenses.
I was able to throw a $12,000 down payment on my AMG just from saving since I started mowing lawns when I was 10. I really love the car and the car scene.
But it kinda sucks in the end because I desire companionship as I'm very extroverted.
>>17830156
I have a lot of car friends but I don't find joy in going to car shows or anything anymore. The cars great but it gets too much time without anyone in the passenger seats. :(