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Hey /adv/, i'm a guy, i'm 23, i've been in a 3 year relationship that is already too damaged and with no repair.
The problem started when my best friend and i fell in love with each other and i cheated on my gf. It never was with physical intentions although they happened eventually. My friend thought she was going to be the one. So i kept lying at her telling her that i was single no, but, two months ago, she saw me with my gf and she got mad. I cut every contact with her and now.
Now i regret this like i've never done. She was the one, guys. I was too afraid to hurt my GF and i never took a decision. Now my friend is with another man (virtual relationship though) and she doesn't feel nothing for me anymore. I was her super crush for years and i screwed it up. She was perfect, damn.
What can i do to overcome this? I can't stop crying for her everytime and it's all my fault, i know there is nothing i can do to get her back.
Never be afraid to do what your heart wants just because you are afraid.
I learned the lesson.
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Shameful self bump
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>>17826490
>What can i do to overcome this?
suffer miserably for awhile and then find a new gal to fall in love with
and don't fuckup next time
you seem to realize you fucked this up and it all started just as friends with some other gal
don't do that shit, that is why males/females have problems being "friends" when they are dating married etc
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>>17827201
But for you, is there any possibilty to get her back? I mean, not now, but i have this stupid miserable hope to meet her again in the future. I don't want to bother her in this new relationship but i really... Love her, man.
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>>17827272
there will be other girls, it's ok to leave her as a memory
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She isnt the one. Youre just not haopy in your relationship and you think she is.leave your GF, but dont pursue the friend, she is only the object of your desire because you dont want to admit your no longer in love.
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>>17827272
i don't know
you wanted to date 2 girls at the same time and did it for 2 months and then got busted
now you want the girl that walked away from you ?
if you liked her so much why did you keep dating your gf ?
i can't figure this out
but the general rule is - only date 1 girl at a time unless you're into "open relationships" which never really work anyway somebody always gets hurt jealous etc
again i think this will fade after awhile and if you don't like your current gf enough to be faithful welll then find a different one eh ?
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>>17827304
The problem is that i was very afraid at that moment, my gf is a very autodestructive person (she cuts herself and hits herself) and i was so afraid of she was going to do if i broke up with her and found out that it was for other woman.
When i took that decision i didn't do what my heart wanted to.
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>>17827322
ouch
well you never know what may have happened if you did 1 thing vs another
what doesn't make sense was stopping all contact with the gal you really like
if you really like her then dump your current gf which you don't seem to like too much and try again apologize whatever, if you 2 were really meant for each other it will happen
i guess idk
good luck !!
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