Anyone here succeeded at making the transition from being a hermit

>>17824501
Accept the world.
Love Your place in it.
Make better of your Focus to be your Best self.
Commit to your best freedom.

>>17824507
>Make better of your Focus to be your Best self.
What

>>17824590
Use your brain.

>>17824501
truth is you have to put yourself in a place of uncomfortability, like going out and doing clubs, and you need to keep doing it. Getting comfortable is the enemy, you need to try new things and be honest about yourself while doing it, and when I say honest about yourself I mean your personality on a scale of 1 to 10 you should be a 4 or 5. So I mean you can be you but don't be jumping around to get attention to show off what your personality is like.

>>17824501
find social things to do, this won't happen by itself you need to put some effort into it

internet search for "contra dancing" see if any near you, ezpz dancing, more like co-ed walking aerobics, minimal speaking needed just be clean be polite & ask gals to dance, partnet not needed

otherwise book clubs, movie clubs, hiking clubs whatever find something social and start doing it

you you you you it's all on you

better to work on this now than wait wait wait until you're 35 45 55 etc

good luck