Tldr; asked friends for advice, not really helpful, no idea what to do with dependent gf.
So recently, I have started an anonymous Twitter to rant, talked to my friends, taken dumb quizzes.
But I am living with my gf of 6ish months and we have known each other for 6ish years. We have very aligned long term goals and such. We moved in with each other fairly recently in a new location to both of us(3 months ago) and things are tough. She finally found a job in new location (weekends currently) and I will likely still be taking care of all the finances for a while. We barely sleep together even just sleeping and sex is rare (last try was I think October) because of her own issues.
We recently (yesterday) talked about stuff, not arguing, calm discussion of how we were doing. We are 'ok'.
I do love her and she has been there for me for my hardships, but idk, in all honesty, my mindset is that things will keep waning down.
Tldr double combo; I think I feel like she holds more cards than I do.
>move in together after 3 months
>you're financially dependent on her
>sex is already dropping in frequency 3 months in
Better find some other sugar momma, because this isn't going to last.
>>17822778
>Figuring out you are a sugar daddy with no benefits.
Neat.
dat page 2, cmon 4chan, rip into me more
>>17822795
What do you think a sugar daddy is?
>>17822831
Good point. In those types if relationships is it normal for the recipient to look for work and attempt to work out the mental shit? She seems to be trying and is disappointed she can't currently do that.
But as a redpiller might say, she could easily be playing me.
final bump