I think I think about sex too much I'm in college, not

>>17822537
>admire a womans attractiveness in a non-sexual way

Why would you ? It's there to be admired in a sexual way.

>What do i do

Act on it. Expose yourself to girls, talk to them as much as possible, start finding your balls and making moves no matter how autitic you end up being in the process.

>>17822537
Try to watch less porn. Change your hobbies, listen to Queen - Having a Good Time, or do anything that can replace masturbating

>>17822555
Yeah a whack it a lot.

My life is super high stress.

Gaming has pretty much been my only hobby since I was like 6, what a sad life I live

>>17822547
I did some screening with my counselor and it suggested I'm in the high range for anxiety and depression and suggests it could very well be clinical.

I know a lot can be overcome by sheer willpower but my anxiety around women can get so intense that I just don't see how I can overcome it and focus

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>>17822626
>My life is super high stress.
My cousin always said ''Nothing is more effective on removing stress than hitting a sandbag''

Go to the gym, get some boxing gloves, and hit the sandbag until you feel better. Trust me

As for new hobbies, you'd be surprised of how something as stupid as playing chess can help you improve your life. If you play Dark Souls, then chess is pretty much ''GIT GUD''

Word of advice: If you want to overcome stress and anxiety, always planify your day. Write on a notebook what you're going to do tomorrow, and leave it next to your bed before going to sleep. And if your day does not go as planned, go to the gym and hit that sandbag

>>17822645
I'm pretty shit at Dark Souls, desu. Lately I've just been generally questioning my general intelligence desu.

My problem solving and overall knowledge of... well... the world seems to be kinda lacking compared to other people my age. I also seem to have literally 0 willpower so even if I plan to do things they almost never get done. I'm just a lazy useless fuck I guess, kinda been a problem all my life.

These issues have actually been making me fall behind in my studies too. I'm gonna be lucky to come out of this semester with all 60s.

I feel like I have.... so much wrong with me with no time and no knowhow to fix it.

I'm so overwhelmed, life is going by so fast and I just can't keep up anymore

>>17822632
Try Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

Which means, expose yourself to women gradually. Start with just asking them for the time and other easy stuff, then gradually try to start conversations from that.

Also, small talk with everyone who's willing and able.

These are the same methods used to treat anxiety in general. Start as small as possible, and keep slowly pushing yourself. The point isn't to eliminate your anxiety (everyone has that to some degree) but to enable you to act despite it.

Also, feel absolutely no obligation to suppress your sexuality. Don't even start, it only makes things harder. Definitely feel free to imagine a sex woman bouncing on your dick when she catches your eye. As longas you don't stare at her body like a creep, it's absolutely fine.
And also gives you some more motivation to actually approach.

>>17822695
Here's the weird thing. I'm ok with talking to women under forced interactions. I work at a fast food restaurant, and I feel fine taking peoples orders because it doesn't feel intrusive or anything, they expect me to talk to them. In other situations my brain just doesn't let me

>>17822697
This is exactly how I feel as well, I interacted with a lot of very good (seriously, those were 10/10 model tier women) looking girls on my last job and since those conversations all happened under a professional pretext I had not problem at all. When I'm under pressure to drag them into a more romantic route, I get short-breathed.

>>17822704
I feel just kinda hopeless now.

Life is moving way to fast for me.... I just wish I could hit paused, figure my shit out and keep moving