I'm a kissless virgin which isn't that ugly, but i

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1. Stop buying in your own bullshit/excuses. "I can't do this today because I...." you get the idea. Your brain WILL try to talk you out of doing important things, and it's your job to catch yourself out, then go DO it. Think about why you SHOULD do it.

2. The only way to get good at anything is to practice to begin with. You can start small by chatting with mutual friends. What you talk about to girls doesn't really matter actually, just say what's on your mind, what's been happening, practice using statements instead of questioning all the time and you'll be fine.


You're on your first step to making it anon. Good luck brother.

>>17820561
Thank you anon.

>>17820486
>I KNOW why I'm a shitty virgin, but I'm afraid of women and want to finally change my shitty NEET behavior.

That's you motivation for self improvement. Work on your hobbies/responsibilities until you stop seeing yourself as a "shitty" anything.

I second the first anon's advice.
For cleaning, set a task a day. Let's say, you will just pick up trash in the living room. That's it. All day that will be your only assignment to be completed before you go to sleep. Then the next day, if you haven't done it, do it! Then when that is done, choose to do the dishes. Slowly add more. You will find that if you had the energy to do one thing, it will motivate you to do two a day, then it will add on everyday until it will feel weird not having cleaned a bit of your house before you go to sleep.
Practice makes perfect. See if you can set tasks for yourself when you enter a relationship. Like," I will definitely setup a picnic in a week," I will tell her about my parents tomorrow and share the story of when we went fishing and propose to go camping in the fall, I will share my fear about x next Saturday so she knows what I feel. Women will be drawn to your personality and how you treat them. They may be more experienced and will help you if you are both in love. If you fall for someone, make sure it is someone you can trust, even when you feel vulnerable. You may also end up with someone that will also want to experience their firsts alongside you. Sometimes the best moments are when you don't need to say a thing to each other but are both relaxing in the same room doing your own thing.
Small steps, but take them. Don't punish yourself if you don't complete them, just never stop trying. It will all become more comfortable or a habit.
Good luck! :)

>>17820486
Just do it. your lack of motivation is a habit. break that habbit and fuck it in the asshole. go, clean ur shithole of a house now. Get off your ass and learn something. Feel bad when you sit around lazy. Feel good when you get shit done.