Thread replies: 9
Thread images: 5
Thread images: 5
File: catknife.png (532KB, 500x363px) Image search:
[Google]
532KB, 500x363px
Girl advice.
I'm m, 27.
Never had a gf.
I started approaching girls a few weeks ago. I'm pretty nervous.
It's sort of working out. But I'm literally autistic.
Some suave way I got 2 phone numbers. But I honestly don't know what to say to a girl when I'm talking to them. Sometimes I just zone out, and I start thinking about something else.
Awkward periods of silence....thinking of saying something where we can generate a connection.
I'm not anxious anymore to be like "Hi" But I can do that, and then I got nothing else.
any help?
>>
File: 1461914241668.jpg (24KB, 204x301px) Image search:
[Google]
24KB, 204x301px
>>17819258
>any help?
No, sorry, but here's another picture of a cat
>>
>>17819270
Thank you Anon.
>>
>I have a disease that makes it difficult to learn social skills. Should I spend any effort developing them when everyone else is?
>Nah I think I'll jack off to cartoons for another 15 years before realizing that this is a lonely, boring existence.
>>
>>17819258
>I honestly don't know what to say to a girl when I'm talking to them. Sometimes I just zone out, and I start thinking about something else.
Congrats, you're a normal human being. Women are fucking horrible at story telling and it's only natural to lose interest after about 30 seconds. It's perfectly natural to just sit there and nod your head while thinking about how trannies tuck their dicks.
>>
File: 1428578997900669.jpg (27KB, 550x535px) Image search:
[Google]
27KB, 550x535px
>>17819278
>>
File: 1461048635983.jpg (137KB, 800x595px) Image search:
[Google]
137KB, 800x595px
>>17819276
Honestly even though I've never really "cold approached" a girl I imagine that I would have the same problem. I have watched various videos on youtube of guys approaching girls on the street and it seems like they just talk absolute shite for most of it... It's strange for me, I usually have some overt purpose when I talk to people, I don't just engage random people in conversation about where they're from, what they do etc. I don't know why I'm supposed to care about that stuff
>>
>>17819258
Don't listen to all of the weebs on this website. They're just mad they can't even approach.
What helps a lot is meditation. What the issue is is that you're not living in the moment. You have to be able to take your energy and focus it to be able to enjoy the moment.
>>
>>17819258
Besides you being autistic, your main problem is your are to busy focusing on what to say instead of the girl. Instead of thinking "what should I say?" Think "what is she like?" "What's her favorite thing?" Etc. You will literally never run out of shit to say if you just listen. Also phone numbers don't mean shit. Ask her out, figure out a time, then the number. Getting a number is a dead meme from the 90`s. You want a date, not a number.
Thread posts: 9
Thread images: 5
Thread images: 5