I'm so lonely but I have no motivation to join the conventional dating scene. I don't want to work out, or get weekly haircuts, or pay for dates. But at the same time I want a girlfriend.
How do I fix this?
>>17817068
You wait till you're lonely enough to find the motivation to fit the conventional dating scene.
Actually find someone who will help you motivate yourself instead of playing the why me game
>>17817070
I've only had a single girl friend. I would be like a fish out of water :(
>>17817068
You can't have a girlfriend with no effort. First step: meeting people.
Sorry dude, but you gotta move your ass a bit.
>>17817068
unfortunately you cant have your cake and eat it too. anything worth having takes effort. decide whats more important.
you can keep a look out and wait for things to happe naturally.
i mean a lot of guys dont 'work out' and still date. if they're handsome enough they get qts. if they aren't, they settle for uglier or fatter chicks. if its just about being lonely, does it really matter if shes not top tier qt?
most men dont get weekly haircuts either btw, dunno where that meme came from.