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Well /adv/, I have to be honest, my game's pretty good if I date girls and hang out with them - but my texting skills are rubbish. So I'm outta ideas what to do with a girl I've fallen for, and hope you can help me. It goes like this:
>Meet girl on tinder
>We text from time to time, not lots, after about three weeks she writes me that she's out clubbing and if I wanna meet up
>Meet up, have fun, take her home, don't fuck but cuddle and kiss and get sort of emotionally close
>Meet up one week later, in that week she already was pretty weird in whatsapp, like seemingly doging questions about another date, or even smalltalk
>The second date happens anyway, she seems to have a really good time, we kiss a lot, go for a walk at night after a concert, I take her home, have great sex, the intimate sort with lots of cuddling and foreplay, breakfast together in the morning, she seems really into me like hugging me for long periods, we talk about going to the movies next time.
After that we went back to the horrible texting, she's dodging me, canceled our movie date and now doesn't even react to me asking her when she wants to do the date instead.
She's a really shy sort of girl, so idk if it stems from there, but all the affection she had for me one week, and then not a single bit in the next? I can't really believe that shit. So what should I do now text-wise? Just accept that she doesn't want me anymore and stop writing? Text her another date all alpha-like "Okay hey, then just meet up on wednesday 'cause I'm free there?" or carefully approach her about being so flaky with me and why she acts that way when she was so affectionate on our dates?
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>>17816456
Don't text her for a few days and ask again casually
Like oh I'm at this party or I'm at this bar if you wanna swing through
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>>17816456
She's probably not single desu. You're the other man.
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>>17816463
Probably a good idea but not really practically in our case because she's lives in a pretty rural place with my hometown as the central hub of that rural area, so if we wanna do something she has to drive like an hour by car or longer by train to hang with me. Not really good for something spontaneous.
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>>17816484
Not helping because that's not the case. If she has some other guy hanging in the open like me, that I don't know though. To be honest at that point I wouldn't care, because I still date other women atm, but I'd rather have her still hanging out with me and not flaking on dates.
Because like I said, bitch is pretty close and emotional to me if we're together, so I'm just fed up with that cold shoulder shit inbetween.
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>>17816495
Then talk to ask her directly about it
She lives an hour away and you're not dating
You have nothing to lose and all to gain
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