My fiance and I have been together for a while now, we're thinking about getting married late next year.
She's great, I lover her, theres just one slight problem. We both want kids, of that we're sure. However she is Asian (Chinese) and I am white.
to be honest I'm not exactly excited about raising a halfie, they seem to be discriminated against, have identity issues and such.
So, one alternative I've thought about is to use a white surrogate mother. I wouldn't want to adopt since the child wouldn't really be mine then.
So how do I break the ice about us using a surrogate mother? anyone have any similar experiences?
>>17816404
Don't do it. A halfie is fine.
What the fuck.
>>17816404
Basically you want to tell your future wife that while you want to marry her you don't want her to have your children? Wow, good luck, you're gonna need it.
>>17816404
this has to be bait
>>17816404
A haiku for OP
Stop posting this thread
It's getting old really fast
Also K Y S
>>17816410
>Basically you want to tell your future wife that while you want to marry her you don't want her to have your children? Wow, good luck, you're gonna need it.
Shes done pretty selfless things in the past for me, eg moved states for my job even though her family and friends are pretty far away now, she doesnt seem to mind
>>17816408
both the halfies i knew growing up are NEETs at 27
>>17816438
That's a lot different than telling her to basically raise "someone else's" child.
>>17816438
The whole point of marriage is to give a relationship legal status so that having kids is financially and legally secured. And you want to bring in a third party and tell your wife she isn't good enough to have your kids, because that's what it will sound like to her.
>>17816404
I don't know her, but if you propose that she will legitimately hate you for life. Half Asian/Whites are superior anyhow you cuck, Math brain + Normal height
>>17816438
>both the halfies i knew growing up are NEETs at 27
Please tell us more about your boring life experiences, and don't forget to give yourself more anecdotal advice while you're at it. That's why you posted here right?