> Supervisor at work
> We get along really well, ends up being a kind of friendship. She is very attractive.
> She has a fiance
> I make peace with that
> Find out she is also friends with another guy at work
> She starts gushing over him, telling me about how he teases her and they go for walks
> Feel awful but can't articulate why
> All life in the relationship drains out and I no longer want to work with her
Why do I feel so awful? I'm fine with her being in a relationship and she talks about her partner all the time. Why do I feel so terrible when she talks about the other guy she works with? I feel debased but I don't know why because it's so specific: why would you feel bad about being third string rather than second string? It makes no sense
Also before you call me a beta male and everything, she's my boss, what the fuck am I supposed to do? I can't cut contact with my own boss
>>17815753
The guy you work with is obviously more "real" than some guy you never saw, even though he's closer to her.
>what the fuck am I supposed to do?
Stop thinking about this shit.
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>>17815753
maybe she talks to the other guy about you the same way she talks to you about him?
Would that thought make you feel better?
>>17815753
you're jealous but angry about the other guy that doesn't care that she has a fiance. your dick obviously wants to be inside her.
>>17815753
>Why do I feel so terrible when she talks about the other guy she works with?
Deep down you are in love with him and dis bich in the way
>>17816242
In addition to this, you shouldn't care that she has a fiance. I used to care about that shit too, but realised that if they are gonna cheat, IT MIGHT AS WELL BE YOU FAGGOT! Just get your dick wet son, you be alright
The fiance is a faceless, static given. She did not exactly "choose" him over you, he came with her.
The coworker and you were both equal candidates, so her seeming to show more enthusiasm for him feels much more personal and like he's the better one in her eyes. Much more clear cut competition than someone she knew before ever meeting you.
>>17816237
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Delusions aren't going to help
>>17815775
In one.