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Just looking for some insight/advice how to deal with this, girl is 20 BTW and goes to the same school as I do.
>Meet girl and start dating
>Won't hug hello or bye in public (let alone hold hands or anything else)
>won't say she's dating anyone unless they ask specifically "do you have a boyfriend"
>Girl mentions this is a problem in every relationship
>Girl says parents will get into raging fights and then pretend like nothing happened
>Girl says she can't even tell her parents she loves them
>Generally caring and appreciative alone though, sometimes sweet in her own way
>Have a date night once or twice a week
>Girl gets angry and resentful if she's out too late or goes to bed past 10
> Blames me for failing grades (even if we only hung out a day on the weekend)
>1.5 months into relationship take trip out of town for the weekend
>Everything seemed fine (pretty great on my side)
>Refuses to hug me after seeing me
>Don't talk for a day
>Girl breaks up with me for a day, gets back with me
>Girl says she doesn't even know why she's mad at me
>girl makes plans for a date, bails on date
>Says she needs time alone, acts distant, cold, and mean
>don't talk to her for a few days (5 days, other than one small text)
>keeps being mean and cold
>Say she isn't acting like she even cares about me anymore
>Gets pissed "you know I care about you"
>couple days pass, girl does the same shit
>Gets really angry, ignores me
>see girl and try to calmly talk to her
>Girl becomes mean, cold, starts yelling
>breaks up with me
Is she bonkers or did I do something I'm missing? I'm a pretty attractive guy and generally kept my distance (more so when she said she needed it
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>>17815144
Unstable people are just unstable people. She obviously has some issues that were only gonna keep getting worse.
Now you know the warning signs. Next time a girls starts doing weird unstable shite, you'll know what you're signing up for.
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>>17815156
This man
Better luck next time
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You're being the woman in the relationship. Stop being such a pussy.
Who cares if she won't hug you or hold your hand?
Your job as a man isn't to establish the relationship rules. Your job is to get her to have fun, laugh, and have orgasms.
"you must love in such a way that the person you love feels free."
>Take girl out
>have fun
>go home
>hook up
>When she texts you after the date, whenever that may be, say I had a great time too. Looking forward to seeing you again soon!
>Wait until she texts you again
>When she does, ask her when she's free to get together.
>Repeat process
>Eventually she'll bring up relationship stuff. Stop forcing things to happen. You're going to make her unsure of herself and you.
>Have a date night at least once a week.
>Focus on your career, goals, hobbies, etc. DO not chase her. If she wants to see you, she'll text you. You don't have to do anything but arrange dates when she texts you.
Good luck.
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>>17815144
she sounds like my ex bf. they would go great together.
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>>17815144
She has undiagnosed mild high functioning aspergers
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>>17815144
Probably some kind of issue relating to her parents. Or maybe she's just plain nuts.
Either way, she isn't worth the headache, dip and run
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