How do I not over do it?
Someone is the centre of my world.
But I'm lesser important in theirs.
They are in my mind all the time and I really think I over do it a lot.
I don't want to drive them away.
I need help being me again. My life revolves around them. I've lost caring for myself.
I feel trapped and alone.
Please help me. I need help.
self respect > love
If you are already obsessed, you've fucked up, probably seek mental help
>>17814162
not obsessed, don't get me wrong, just attached to somebody who isn't attached to me.
like falling in love with a friend, kind of situation.
I don't go out of my way to obsess over anyone.
>>17814145
Be careful, you may cut yourself on that edge.
>>17814145
Unless you're some incredible 6'4" Chad no woman is going to care about you more than you care about her
>>17814233
>>17814241
Thanks for the uplifting advice friends
edu?
>>17814145
you need to take control and shift focus back on yourself. otherwise you're in for a world of hurt and disappointment (been there, done that). try to stay away as much as possible, seek other companies and even try to fall for other girls. not one person is important enough to lose yourself over them, not even the love of your life
>>17814145
You are gonna fuck it up eventually. Insecurity always loses.
Just try to enjoy it while it lasts and detach yourself from the outcome.
You cant change yourself without making yourself miserable.