So I needed an outside opinion. My first love "Nick"

>>17813498
tl;dr dude I dated forever ago that I remained friends with seems to have cut me off and I'm unsure why

>didn't want to break up for financial reasons
Nick is dating a gold digging whore.
Also you're a shallow retard for giving a shit about what people do on social media. Step away from your fucking phone and talk to people like a real person.

>>17813505
I know it sounds ridiculous, but it's not like that. You can judge all you want, I talk to most of my friends in real life. It's the implication of "you can't contact her anymore."

I'm not upset he didn't "like my pics" or 'retweet' some shit. If I talk to you, it doesn't matter. I don't really know how to articulate what I mean.

>Nick is dating a gold digging whore.
Kinda what I told him before I realized it was her. I mean, it still stands if I'm being honest.

mad at the truth
girls bein girls

>>17813517
>she denied my request on instagram... and I just discovered he unfollowed me too.
She's probably just a jealous cunt or didnt like you in highschool, and given that she's already a proven gold digger (I.E. Manipulative whore) then she is probably whipping Nick into doing what she wants.
That is, unfollowing any woman she perceives to be a threat. Which always includes any ex.

>>17813576
I mean, if she read the shit I wrote about her (before I knew she was the girl Nick was referring to) it was BRUUUUTAL. I guess I could understand.

Even still, I'm pretty hurt because we were ride-or-die buds for 10 years. And she comes and snaps her fingers and I get dropped? Understandable if I didn't respect their relationship or if there were still romantic feelings, but damn dude. I'm engaged to someone I'm madly in love with. I wanted Nick to be one of my brides..men. I wanted her to be his date, like wtf.

Pussy isn't worth a good friend, those are hard to come by. I'm trying not to take it personal, but I damn sure wouldn't drop him.

>>17813610
w h i p p e d

>>17813610
Text him and tell him that. If you're really that good of friends you wouldn't give up after he distanced himself because of a new girlfriend fucking with his head

>>17813498

This Op. >>17813576

Any girl that is with another dude, and then leaves that guy for another is a straight up bitch. She will eventually do it to him too, but in the mean time she has to cut out any of the perceived competition. Either way she would have tried to get you out of his life.

>>17813626
I mean they've been together almost a year. I will try to reach out to him about it, but it just sucks. He's like marriage-talk into this girl.

Maybe I have higher loyalty/standards than most when it comes to friendship. Most of all I just feel really dumb for thinking we were the real deal.

>>17813627
I tried to do mental gymnastics to justify her actions... because I DID always really like her. But the facts are... I can't imagine a decent human being doing what she did. And now this... well. Yeah.

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I guess I should just try not to take it personal. Maybe it's not that our friendship meant more to me than him, he's just... blinded by the vag. Still stings though. I'll try and reach out next time I'm in town...

I hope it at least is worth it and it works out for him. If it doesn't, I'll probably still have his back.