Girlfriend started up an ad on a site where she gets payed $15 for a 20 min call to "talk to people" (She watches guys orgasm in a Skype call)
What do I do?
>>17811468
Call her and pretend to be a stranger
>>17811468
Wait she gets paid to watch guys fap?
Sounds like easy money.
How did u find out?
>>17811468
Eventually she'll realize camming is where the real money is at.
>She watches
that's not what happens
>>17811479
She told me about it
>>17811468
Eh, I've seen camgirls in stable, monogamous relationships. Depends on what kind of person she is.
If she's not disloyal, and the two of you have something good going, you have the satisfaction of knowing just how many dudes are thirsting over your woman in vain.
>>17811489
>What do I do?
be supportive and laugh about it, ez moneyz
>>17811489
I think that's good, just ask her to stay open about it.
Maybe talk about what some reasonable boundaries would be. Communication, communication, communication.
>>17811491
>>17811496
>>17811468
Tell her calmly and rationally that it makes you uncomfortable and why. If she doesn't care, then it's time to rethink your relationship.
>>17811497
How long before it turns into something more for the money though...that's what would concern me.
>>17811489
Yeah you know, that's bullshit
An honest person asks for permission or at least talks about something like this before going fowards
Just telling you by the way I did x isn't being transparent and honest
It's like saying by the way I'm fucking my coworker I'm telling you this because I want honesty in out relationship
>>17811513
Telling me beforehand would have been nice, yeah
>>17811468
Break up with the dumb whore.
Ignore all the cunts here telling you this is okay, it isn't.
>>17811468
You ask her to buy you stuff.
Other men are reaching orgasms and your woman is involved.
It does not matter if she just watched or whatever. Unless it's an open relationship anything relate to sex shout be only between you two. And for the porn argument, there is a difference between publicly available pornographic material and watching something pornographic that's made especially with you in mind. That dude jacks off thinking that she is watching. This is not the same as an actor fucking knowing that it'll be recorded and sold/put online for everyone to see.
Explain to her why this is too much. Tell her that you're concerned about how your concept of limits in relationship are different and ask her why she thinks it's okay. It may turn out ugly if you don't intervene carefully
>>17811468
Punch her in the boob
>>17811468
It depends. Are you comfortable with it or not?
>>17811510
With different random guys miles away. Why would she dump OP to date a man desperate enough to pay to skype a woman?
Are you in a ldr by any chance op? Have you ever met this girl?
hahahaha
>>17811489
Op, break up with her. She obviously has no respect for you. If she did, she would be apologizing for making this kind of decision without you.
Instead shes downplaying it.
First by bringing up video games and again by comparing it to porn.
It's not "just watching" it's going to become more.
Since she already watches porn (presumably to get off), What's going to happen when she's watching men and she gets aroused?
Think about it. She's trying to make u the third wheel to her cyber orgy/money train.
Pimp her out even more
Turn her into a cam girl
Take a cut of the profits
Literally get payed to fuck your gf
>>17811468
Well if I was in your situation I'd lose all respect for her but I'd still keep her around. Pimp her out and make a bit of money because she's clearly not good for anything else.
You are a worthless piece of SHIT op the definition of a cuck a weak man having no control over his woman the average American
There is a reason girls in the East have values we men dont let them do everything woman are like children when will you western scum realize that
>>17813127
Hagahahahahaha
>>>/pol/
>dating a redditor
>>17811468
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>>17811496
>I'm gonna see someone cum LOL
>Wtf does that mean?
>PARDON
>HELLO?!
JUST
honestly the fact that she signed up for something like this before consulting you is beyond disrespectful.
>>17813220
>Please RESPOND
But ye probably time to start looking for a new girlfriend.
>>17811468
OP....
>>17811496
No experience with this, but here's my two cents: this post was a HUGE red flag for me. She seemed to be misleading when initially telling you about this whole thing. It seems like she initially played it off as some innocent social thing, and only after you had agreed to it and things were in motion did she CASUALLY slip in the fact that she was going to be Skyping with masturbating men. She knew exactly what she was doing and what she was keeping from you. You have every right to call her out for this and tell her that you aren't okay with it.
Just be prepared for her to tell you to fuck off b/c seriously that much money for 25 minutes is insane.
You're better than dating a hooker anon time to move on
>>17811496
>Wtf does that mean
wew
Started choking on my fucking food
Can you link me this site? sounds like an easy way to scam stupid men.