How do you tell if you're with someone who loves you so passionately that she gets really upset and lashes out about it and pretends to do bad things to hurt you because she's so distraught, or someone who really is an emotional abuser who does bad things and accidentally admits them when upset then takes them back?
>>17806361
There only exists crazy people who cannot control themselves.
The second one sounds a lot more likely than the first.
>>17806364
But what if they are crazy but you still love them
>>17806457
A ton
>>17806457
Loving people who are so unaware of their own issues that they lash out at others around them is very difficult. Continuing to be with this person may lead to a lot of heartbreak and emotional damage to yourself. I would say get out while you still can.
>>17806577
What if it was in the past and she's better now but I can't help but constantly live on edge wondering whether she'll explode at any moment and tell me she's been fucking other people all along again
>>17806593
You should probably talk to her about this. Or think about the fact that you stayed with somebody who cheated on you and that is usually a TERRIBLE idea due to the fact that it can fuck up a relationship forever
source: stayed in a relationship where the other person cheated on me and had a very messy breakup later
>>17806457
Never stick dick in crazy ...