Hey, need some advice. I have been dating my boyfriend for a

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Anyone?

Suck his dick and swallow

also, sort of relevent, but do you climax OP?

>>17805673
I would be glad to swallow, he just can't cum. I'm willing to suck it for a long time(like an hour) and I deep throat him,let him fuck my face, anything I can think of, but no dice so far. And I do climax, not everytime, but most of the time, which I feel sort of bad about, considering his situation.

Tell him to completely stop watching porn and masturbating.

>>17805680
do whatever you want for a while, but when it's time to seal the deal, you need to do something you can keep going at a consistent pace, rather than something you think would feel good. My girlfriend always switches things up right when I'm about to cum from one thing and I totally lose the feeling and have to build it up again.

he watches porn and masturbates too much

source: myself

p.s. it is crucial he stops BOTH not just one

>>17805626
If you truly care for him and want to make him feel good then you need to show that it doesn't bother you that he doesn't cum. Just focus on enjoying the sex and don't make a big effort to make him cum because that will make him feel inadequate when he can't cum and he sees you trying so hard to make it happen.

>>17805748
how do I even begin to broach this topic with him in a tactful way? He has mentioned that he thinks jerking off too much might be a problem too.

>>17805739
I've asked him before if i was changing things up at the wrong time, but he said that wasn't it, and that it fells good, but he is unable to anyway.

>>17805995

It definitely is too much masturbation. I had had sex in like 2-3 months. Decide to see escort, and jack off two hours before so I don't spill the spaghetti 3 min in. But when I got there, I had no drive to do anything and barely managed a softie.

>>17806012

* i had not sex

>>17806015
Yeah, I just don't know how to mention it without sounding critical and since its a psychological thing, I don't want to say something that makes him feel worse and makes the whole thing worse, if that makes sense.

>>17806015
I just feel sort of guilty at this point. I really like to please it really turns me on, always has. There's just something about swallowing and the whole idea of finishing a guy with my mouth that really gets me going and I kind of miss it. I haven't said any of this to him, just want to get across how much I truly enjoy it and would like to have that aspect in our relationship, if possible.

>>17805991
>hey anon, you remember how you mentioned that you think jerking off might be a problem?
>i've been looking this stuff up and there also seems to be some stuff out there that suggests porn is also a problem
>would you like to try and stop doing those two things, just to see how we go? maybe to start out, don't do it for a week?

etc. go longer and longer each time if he's still cool with it. you'll find out after he manages like 2 - 4 weeks of no fap/porn and he still can't cum while you fuck.

fyi, i've only ever cum while fucking 1 girl (others i jacked off at the end), and it was only after a bunch of other times we had fucked. i had to hump at a steady pace, with some speed, and not stop until i came.

the only time i've climaxed without me doing anything at all (so without me even humping) was when my ex went down on me for 15 minutes. she has always given the best bj, fucking amazing, but never came from it until that time she went to town.

>>17806030
So, you have always been this way? Does it bother you, or is it something that you don't even think about anymore at this point?

>>17806036
i have always been this way. it doesn't bother me, i don't really care if i jack off to finish. i just want to fuck them until they're satisfied.

i can go for a really long time if i want to, but the girls i've been with get a bit sore afterwards if i go for too long. so it makes more sense to just finish in their mouth or something. i prefer that anyway, feels good.

i don't really think about it.

p.s. i suspect you haven't posted on 4chan in a long time but you don't put noko in the "name" field anymore, and i don't think you even need to anymore when creating a new thread. it redirects you to your thread automatically. in any case, noko, sage, etc, go in the "options" field.

unless you're just using noko as a name for funzies i guess.

>>17806051
I haven't posted in a while, you're right. Well, that makes me feel a little better, I just want to make him happy, and am willing to try anything I can that I think might work.

>>17806067
do you know if it actually bothers him?

not that i'm some kind of contrarian edgelord but from what i've seen, i am an exception when it comes to just wanting my partner to enjoy themselves. ofc i want to feel good too, but it is so much better when i'm making my partner feel good. i'm very selfless in bed. i keep fucking through any cramps i might get. idgaf

>>17806067
Smoke weed..

>>17806078
I really don't think it bothered him early on, but at this point, I think it sort of does.

>>17806085
I do already, he does too haha

>>17806177
Oh my God anon! You've got to SUCK his fucking COCK! COOOOOOCCCCCCCCKKKKKK ! I am h-i-g-h as a giraffes nuts,