>match with guy on dating app >he msgs first >we eventually

>>17800888
Introversion, probably
It's a lot easier to make talk through text than irl

Maybe you should initiate the next irl convo?

I'm pretty introverted myself though, probably why I'm also overthinking this all

>>17800888
You know it's actually not against any laws for YOU to suggest plans, right?

>Hey, I was thinking we should go for coffee tomorrow, if you're free

I know I just don't want to suggest plans if itd be making it go in a direction he wouldnt want to go in, with the info I gave what do you guys think? Hopefully in another guy's perspective?

>>17800888
Sounds like he collecting a handful of side bitches and going down the list

>>17800914
I understand, I have this myself.
But if you do nothing, not much will happen. Perhaps you could ask him out through text if you're too introverted to step up to him right now?

>>17800888
Could be scared or just straight up clueless due to lack of experience. How do you know you're not the first girl he's ever even befriended?

>>17800888

stay on this thread long enough adn you'll see why. even when guys are SURE you like them back they're still nervous. and women have made them this way. sure they shoudl man up and realize rejection isnt bad but rejection is a LOT worse than it used to be. it used to be a sort of private thing, but girls are all bitchy about it these days.

if you're REALLY into him, then take the lead. he'll realize you really are into him and take the lead once you give him that push.

>>17800965
I don't think it has gotten worse, it just depends on who you're dealing with, it differs per person. And it would seem you've had a rather bad experience in the past and are currently projecting that on women as a whole and/or the current generation of people.

That's destructive behavior, I'd advice you to take a good look at this and change for the better. Holding a grudge against a large part of society will get you nowhere.

>>17800924
Just keep doing what you're doing now. If you find that he's still cold on personal talk wait for him to warm up. If he doesn't just move on and consider him a text buddy till he either gets it together and things progress or he doesn't and you still have someone to text at work.

Talk to other guys too. He might make a move faster if he senses you're talking with other guys.