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I'm being dragged out to a bar/club environment by a friend who I know will definitely abandon me midway through the night.
What do I do? Do I just try to hit on random women? Really I just need something to distract me until it's time to leave, I would totally be okay with just finding random people to talk to, although I don't think most people would be interested in just talking to a random ass autismo when they're all just out trying to have fun dancing or whatnot.
Please help me, I don't want to be alone tonight.
Not coming isn't an option unfortunately.
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>>17800169
Don't try too hard to hit on people if that doesn't come naturally to you, don't force it. If you see a girl eyeing you, you can just go up and say hi, introduce yourself, etc. Otherwise just have a couple drinks, maybe dance a bit, it doesn't have to be a big deal. If he ditches you and you've had enough, you can just head home
I'm not a big fan of clubs or crowds either, but it doesn't have to be a big scary thing, just keep it low-key and don't try too hard
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Get drunk? That usually helps me tolerate that kind of situation.
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>>17800187
Thanks for the advice man
>>17800193
This also does help when I go out with him, but I usually end up feeling like complete shit when i realize "oh hey no one's paying attention to me why am I here why am I so fucking undesirable, blah blah etc."
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Hang out for an hour or so like >>17800187 said, then ditch 'em before they ditch you. And dont worry about being a social retard or whatever, there's so much external stimuli in a busy club/bar environment that people wont give too much of a shit if you're not super witty. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, that's all.
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>>17800226
Thanks man
On my way there and I'm feeling sick to my stomach still
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Well I'm here
Help
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>>17800356
Relax and make small talk and take a cab home to be safe
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>>17800356
Just have a seat at the bar, order a drink, glance around the room
Where's your friend? Doing his own thing already?
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Lol if you REALLY hate his guts, pour a pitcher a beer over his head and walk out.
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>>17800375
I don't hate him, but he's a bit too much of an extrovert for my own good
>>17800370
Nah still here
>>17800357
How the fuck so I approach someone fpt small talk
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>>17800375
That's a literal bitch move. That'd make it look like his friend fucks him up the ass and OP is jealous he's at the club flirting
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>>17800380
Then just hang out and chat with your friend as if you're not at the club. If he wants to go up to a group of girls, chat with them too. Just don't make a big thing of being "at the club" it's honestly kind of shitty and nerve-wracking for almost everyone. They're still just people
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>>17800389
>>17800370
Welp there he goes
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