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Have girlfriend for about a year >she never initiates sex

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Have girlfriend for about a year
>she never initiates sex
>she expects me to become aroused
>stay aroused
>and finish the job
>while she just lays there flat on her face or back
expects me to magically get a boner from seeing her lay there. expects me to be able to just stick my penis in without getting her aroused first. wont let me touch her in certain ways. im constantly thinking about if shes gonna get upset with how i touch her. she wont let me lick her puss. we were laying on the bed and she got up saying "im gonna go back to do what i was doing, since we werent doing anything on the bed". i was relaxing on the bed and told her to come lay with me. whats stopping her from "doing something" with me? Nothing. I cant be the only person in this relationship that has interest in sex or doing anything sexual. Are all girls like this? its like she doesnt think sex should be fun or something, just a job to get done with no effort on her part.

I let her play with my dick like its a toy, and she doesnt let me do the same to get vagina. Its no wonder i never got good at rubbing her the right way. Thats Her fault. she doesnt suck the dick, and will outright say "no" to anything i want to do. She tells me the things i want to do are weird, when she doesnt even do anything at all. I have to do SOMETHING to get myself excited, she never does. I want to smell her armpit, i want to stick my face in her butt. I want to smell her underwear. I want her to rub her boobs in my face. She doesnt do any of this happily. Are these things really that weird? am i a bad sex partner for complaining about this?
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Communicate with her, not us.
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>>17799259
She just tells me im weird, and denies that she doesnt any of it.
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>>17799256

It's weird that she won't let you go down on her and foreplay is practically nonexistent, but the last part of this is telling... You want to sniff her armpit or stick your face in her ass? I can get how a girl wouldn't be interested in that or find it sexual at all. You're basically saying she smells bad and you get off on her smelling bad.

I personally hate the "face smothering" with boobs kind of thing but to each their own.

Sounds like you need to have a talk with her about being more enthusiastic, but dial back some of your shit that has to do with parts of her that are traditionally dirtier areas.
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>>17799269
are you literally gay? When a girl has an ass like WHOA, the first thing i want to do is stuff my face in it.
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>>17799256
>Thats Her fault

Change that attitude first.

>>17799262

Because the shit you're after isn't normal fag material and besides which this girl could have any number of reasons for her behavior. Worst case scenario she's experienced a traumatic event in her past that's closing her off, best case scenario maybe she had strict religious upbringing or something that gave her no proper outlet for healthy sexual growth.

But a greater problem here seems to be you who thinks jumping in and acting out all your porn fantasies of a willing partner is what sex is all about. Sex isn't about trying to recreate what you've seen on the internet, this is a person you are interacting with not a sex doll

Try being creative without bringing /d/ into the bedroom, try attending to her needs so that she will want to initiate sex.

Serious question, what are you doing to make her want to fuck you? Rule out the rug munching because it sounds like that's not her thing.
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>>17799280

I'm not gay, if I was gay I'd want to stuff my ass in guys' asses. I don't want to stick my face in anyone's ass. They shit from there. I'll get pink eye.

I don't like shoving my face into things, boobs or ass included.
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>>17799289
i dont know her needs because she doesnt WANT anything. I know what sex is not. sex is not one person doing Everything and the other doing nothing. I cant get aroused when shes just laying there. ALL she wants to do is get fucked. she doesnt move her hips, unless i tell her. for example if shes laying on her belly, i tell her to push her butt up against me, but i have to tell her to keep doing it or remind her to do it again. She doesnt like to move at all during sex. and this isnt about the sex itself, its about her attitude about sex and effort vs reward. I was the one with religious shit keeping me from exploring my sexuality, but now that ive finally come to express myself i get told im weird by this stupid slut that had no concept of abstinence until she started fucking me. you put a shot of liquor in her face and shell fuck you without thinking. no i have to basically convince her as to why she should want to have sex with me, generally an unsuccessful endeavor. no shes straight edge and a fucking nun.

I have entered the sexless relationship. something here is NOT healthy and its not entirely me.
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>>17799256

>i want to stick my face in her butt.
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>>17799334

Again you're blaming the shit out of her, you usually only see this kind of resentment out of 40 year marriages but you type like you're barely 18.

What's the relationship like outside of sex? Do you even enjoy eachother's company?
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>>17799256
Those are all weird as fuck. Like you fucking degenerate. Also you dont ask to rub your face in her boobs. You just do it while you are sucking on them
Also tell her that you dont like having sex with her because since she never initiates it you feel like its a chore for her and she doesnt want it.
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Maybe she just doesn't want to do it with you.
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Just talk about it to her and if that doesn't work just break up.
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