>gf gives handjob every day or 2.
>maybe only wants sex once in a week or every 2 weeks.
it's getting really lame. She just does that so i am not all over her. what do?
>>17795959
Talk to her you idiot.
Talk to her about having sex more often. Ask if she would be into that
See why she doesn't want to
Some people aren't compatible sexually and that's when you need to ask yourself if you can live with this or you need to leave
>>17795959
Ask her if she would like to have more sex.
If she does, work on the romance, have more physical contact, work out and get more attractive, ask her about her fantasies, and eventually take her to a doctor and make sure she has no physical or psychological condition that lowers her sex drive.
If she doesn't, either accept it or move on.
Alright ty,
I kind of wonder, what's considered a normal sex drive for the late 20's?
>>17795977
I'm 27, with my SO for 12 years, and we usually fuck 2-4 times a week depending on how busy we are.
>>17795977
3 times a week in a long term relationship is prob average but who gives a fuck about average
>>17795969
LITERALLY THIS
Communicate or do you have aspergers
>>17795993
Sometimes i try and talk about these things with her, she just says something like: i just don't feel like it lately.
it's just super weird that she teases me sometimes but doesn't feel like doing anything herself.
>>17796008
You sure you're not just strangers that live together?
>>17796008
What do you look like? How often do you work out?
>>17796022
I've lived with strangers and none of them ever gave me a handy.
>>17796026
Well the handjob thing gave me pause. Handjobs are what prostitutes give to their fat greasy customers. In general if a guy gets his dick out in front of his girlfriend she starts sucking it.
>>17795959
terminate relationship, find new partner that is sexually compatible
duh
>>17796045
This, what the fuck.