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How do I convince my girlfriend to stop getting wasted and using

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How do I convince my girlfriend to stop getting wasted and using xanax as a pastime?

I want to do this without explicitly telling her to stop, because I know that if I do tell her she will certainly stop; but I fear that if she isn't actually convinced then she may one day go out and get wasted just to spite me, and that is even worse.

I really think she is worth whatever effort this may cost me; am I wrong in this?
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yea that's not gonna work

Unless she's destroying lives by the habit you don't really have an argument for it besides wanting control and that'll never work to convince anyone to stop

Ask yourself if you can live with this or if it's just not your lifestyle (which is totally ok)
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>>17791994
Is the danger to herself and the relationship we have not a good enough argument?

Maybe she will realize this on her own eventually?
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>>17792007
Unless there's hard evidence like she cheats or crashes her car, breaks a bone etc she won't see it as an issue

One of these usually happen eventually and then maybe she'll realize but not always

I mean how bad is it do you think she's addicted
Does she mix with alcohol
Does she blackout
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>>17792015
Yes she mixes with alcohol and blacks out.

Might I add that she is also on probation.

She apparently has friends that keep her out of trouble but I doubt their ability to be fully responsible as they are essentially under the same influence.
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>>17792028
I know you don't want to but the best thing to do is to accept her behavior or break up

You're not gonna be able to control her
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you don't, you leave her cause she's fucking dumb and making poor choices that are going to drag you down too.

she's not worth it man. been there, done that, not exactly the same deal but similar, 11/10 do not recommend. bail you fool.
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>>17792056
Maybe I can stick around for a little while longer and see if she changes?
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>honey I found a picture of your grandmother
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>>17792069
Kek
Cmon man
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>>17792070
erotica=/="regular" photo faget
not op btw
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