I'm probably going to regret posting this, but I need good advice.
I guess I should start with the basic stuff; I'm a guy, I'm gay and I've been sad and lonely for a little over 2 years now - I thought it was because of my weight, as I used to be a little bit chubby, but I'm as thin as a rail now. So it couldn't be that... Could it be my ridiculously broad shoulders? My lack of feminine curves? I don't know - /adv/ help me out?
>>17788883
be outward, outgoing, and stuff. seek new people, friends, and experiences
>>17788894
I would but...
I'm kind of an introvert by nature..?
>>17788915
That would be why.
What's your type?
If you're a bottom and into older guys being shy isn't that bad.
If you're chasing someone good looking and near your own age you'd better start polishing your game, shy doesn't cut it in a competitive environment.
>>17788883
Nik B.?
>>17789290
Well, I suppose I would consider myself a bottom person... And I kind of am into older guys.. I guess?
>>17789340
Who now?
>>17789290
Although... I wouldn't say I'm a COMPLETE introvert, as I act slightly more extroverted when I'm around people I know and trust
DDRJAKE????
>>17789998
Who?
>>17788883
>I've been sad and lonely for a little over 2 years now
Its a self esteem issue. The solution is to stop giving a fuck. Your "ridiculously broad shoulders" and "lack of feminine curves" (wtf?) are just a scapegoat for the real issue. The problem is the way you think not the way you are physically.
Read about Cognitive behavioural therapy and try to apply it to your life.
>>17788883
Have you considered it might be your foul and reclusive personality?