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Hey anons, how do you deal with loneliness? I'm not talking

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Hey anons, how do you deal with loneliness?

I'm not talking crippling depression loneliness. I have ways of countering my own anxiety there. I'm on college campus right now and as of 15 minutes ago I'm the last guy in a 9 person "apartment" who hasn't left for thanksgiving. I generally like my privacy, but I get this overall creepy, sad, out of place feeling knowing my friends and roommates aren't around. The unusual quiet of it all, you know?

Maybe I don't need advice. Maybe I just need someone to talk to. I'm not sure. How's your evening, /adv/?
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>>17787897
>lonely because muh friends arent around

#normie problems

Throw yourself out of a window
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>>17787897
>but I get this overall creepy, sad, out of place feeling knowing my friends and roommates aren't around. The unusual quiet of it all, you know?
I love that feeling, there's nothing better than being the last person at an event or place. You feel like everyone has moved past you and you're all alone but somehow it's quite cathartic.
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My evenings going well, OP.

I get what you're feeling, man. I'm an international student, so I never get the chance to go back home when most everyone else can.

I kinda use the time to do constructive things. I like to write comics, fix earlier works, get ahead on some final paper, watch movies or read comics I've been meaning to get to for a while, maybe go walk around campus and hit the places that are normally super busy. Generally, my experience is that the loneliness comes before the event and when the dreaded lonely time is here, I figure something or the other to do (that is if I'm not feeling clinically depressed at the time).

Any movies, TV shows, etc you've been meaning to check out?
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>>17787897
>15 minutes ago

Eh, just do stuff. You'll get used to the quiet. Maybe listen to music or podcasts or something.
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>>17787921
Yeah I love this feeling too. I think there's a word kenopsia which sums it up nicely. It isn't necessarily a sorrow always, but it's more than often a really enlightening feeling.
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>>17787935
>kenopsia
Well it seems to be framed in negative way but yeah aside from that it's perfect. The feeling of excessive emptiness you'll find in an otherwise busy place, like the quiet you get when you turn off all the noisy shit in your room.
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I just watch some mindless tv like Friends or Seinfeld when I feel like that and talk to people on Omegle. Kinda helps.

It's not evening where I am but I just had work and have to go back in 2 hours fuck. I'm really tired and don't want to but at least I have tomorrow off. When I get home again I'm gonna have a shower and paint my nails and do laundry which SOUNDS very boring but I'm actually really excited because I haven't had any alone-time in ages.

What do you study at college?
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