>Been with GF for 5 years >Both 24 >She has been drinking

She obvi going through some shit

You gotta do one of those intervention things, have fun

btw pro tip, don't ask why she was drinking, ask how she's doing and if there's anything she wants to talk about

>>17783237
You could also just break up with her and get her out

You're totally in the right to do that

Dude if she does not have sense enough to shape up on her own she's sure as fuck not going to do it just because you ask her to. The fact that her disinhibited instinct was to be horribly mean and then when you asked why she was drunk attack you is a CLEAR indication that she doesn't value you or the relationship very much, and definitely not as much as she values drinking. Just leave it's already over. Or you can stick around and try to force her to change, which will leave you drained and further damaged, at which point you will realize for yourself that you cannot create lasting change in another person unless they themselves want to do it.

Literally the same thing happened las year.

Give her an ultimatum and leave.
If she gives up drinking/drugs/abuse in a given amount of time lets say a month you'll be back. If she doesn't you are fucking outie.

>>17783249
cont. or you wont realize anything and will keep dating fucked up people, expecting them to suddenly "get better" lol
please wake up and smell the coffee i hate to see people suffer at their own behest

This is 100% grounds to end your relationship famalam.