>Have girlfriend
>Get fit
>Get more female attention
>No longer attracted to girlfriend but still care about her
>Still see a future with her despite this but can't help wonder about other women
>Unsure what to do
Is it normal to think about these things?
>>17783220
it's evolution, baby
Kek
Yea it's normal bro
Chris Rock made his last 10 years about that struggle
Man is never satisfied
I recommend that you figure something out that lets you get with with other girls because that shit would eat me up inside and id probably end up cheating on my wife, but maybe you are a stronger man than I
Attraction is important so break up asap. No point of stringing it along any longer than it needs to be. If you aren't attracted to her now, imagine when she's fat, pregnant, swollen and has a hormonal attitude to boot? Only a man who truly loves his woman puts up with that shit. End it now.
If she's overweight and that what makes her unattractive in your eyes, encourage her to change her lifestyle alonside you.
otherwise, break up for reasons stated above, or I don't know, take a 'break' and get some one night stands on the downlow until you feel you got it out of your system. Unless you're interested in relationships with other girls. She might take the break as a chance to better herself, or she might get worse, but it's the only way I can think of of you having the cake and eating it too. Or you could let it eat away until you cheat or remain forever wondering how things could've been.
>>17783220
>>Have girlfriend
Stop lying lol this just another butthurt thread from that /fit/ anon after not getting the response he expected in the other thread. /adv/ is the easiest board to troll.
>>17783220
>>17783220
I had the same problem
>Be with girl for 3 years
>We're both pretty unhealthy/overweight
>Decide to diet and exercise
>She stopped dieting with me
>She stopped going to the gym with me
>Keep it at for months and months
>Finally lose weight
>Confidence goes up
>Suddenly getting a lot more female attention
>Girlfriend still the same old weight
>Try to encourage her to join me
>She says there's no point
>And that she's happy with her weight
>She's 250 pounds
>Feel self conscience and embarrassed to be seen with her
I love her, truly I do, we've been together for a while now and I want to be with her forever, but she's refusing to exercise and keeps gaining weight
Honestly OP you should do what I'm about to do, and do an ultimatum, I'm going to tell my girlfriend that if she doesn't start losing weight I don't think I can be with her anymore, not because of how she looks, but because I don't want to date someone who gets winded walking to and from the bathroom
If you talk to her, make it sound like you're worried about her health rather than her image, it'll make it less painful on her.
>>17783307
>>She's 250 pounds
That is in no way healthy
>tfw no chubby gf to hold
kys
>>17783220
>Monogamy
>In 2016
Anyway,
>No longer attracted to girlfriend
That's a fucking huge hurdle to overcome, bro. Why aren't you into your lady anymore? Is she fat? Boring? Shit lay? What's the deal? Some things are more fixable than others.
>>17783225
This. "A man is as faithful as his options." Relationships are for beta providers, once a man reaches a certain level of social value, his options are such that he has no need to put all his eggs in one basket.
OP has gotten fit, so he's gotten more attractive, he no longer need settle for what was once the best he could get.
>>17783328
>Relationships are for beta providers
Lol wow
I'll take them
They probably starving for some good dick
>>17783307
>250
She will die around 40 if she does take care of that.
Hard to create a life plan in these conditions.
>>17783331
He's right.