This is aimed at sexually inexperienced or virgin men. What can

>>17777991
Try not to move because he will cum in 20 seconds.

>>17777991

Don't focus so much on his virginity, it's demeaning. He is inexperienced, not the guy with three arms.

If you are experienced, then guide him a bit. Guide his hands on your body and don't oversell it. Don't be afraid to say "I don't like that", treat him like an equal and talk to him.

He'll probably be slower on picking up non-verbal cues.

>>17777991
How inexperienced is he? Kissless virgin?

Foreplay is more important than the actual sex, but if he's a real virgin anything you do will blow his mind and he's gonna be 100% focused on trying to make sure you have a good time. Don't worry about it too much, just be relaxed and comfortable and speak openly about about what you want from him.

>>17777991
Guiding me a bit and letting me know when I do good but not patronizing or killing the mood I suppose. Making me feel desirable would help a lot too both in foreplay and during, I think a lot of virgin guys, to some extent, feel insecure about that.

>>17777998
no probs spent many years using porn so when he sticks it in with no visual the cunt wont be able to spurt.

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>>17777991
>I'm considering making an offer with no strings to a virgin guy.

Do you take appointments?

>>17777991
Have done this before.

Go slow, lots of foreplay.
Be patient and stay nice but be assertive about what you like.
Don't expect to fuck him the first time you make out.
Don't overwhelm him with kinky ideas, you being naked is more than enough to get started.
Touch him gently, build it up and see how he likes it. There's lots of time to get wild later on.
Ask him if he wants to have sex, don't just shove it up there.
Let him choose the position you try first. I would recommend one where you can help him put it in. If he doesn't come up with anything, choose a position you feel confident in.
Try to get (yourself) off. It's great for his ego. Suggest things you enjoy, show him where and how to touch you.
If he doesn't perform, reassure him that it's ok and that it will get better once he is more relaxed.
Be brutally honest about everything he does wrong. He hasn't learned that from anyone yet. Don't hold back to say "I don't like this." or "This hurts." Keep it positive, follow it up with what you would like him to do instead.
Remember to both laugh if things go horribly wrong.

Being with a virgin guy can be a little weird at first, but once you take the lead, they will quickly become better :)

>>17777991
Guide him around, that's pretty sexy.
Here's the biggie though, foreplay foreplay foreplay. Suck his cock, let him lick you, whatever. it will help him not bust in like 10 seconds if you guys do it for a while and make fucking sure he has a condom on. Will help him not nut so fast and not inside of you.

Do things that you know will make you more likely to cum so that he will have confidence the next time.

Had some shit to do, thus the long delay.

>>17778000
I'm fine taking charge, and generally don't expect guys to be mind readers.
>>17778002
Don't know exactly, just that he's a virgin and never had a girlfriend, and that he's been trying to fix his life up, and is finally in a place where he's "ready".
>>17777998
>>17778343
I frankly don't really care if he pops quick. It's not a problem.
>>17778534
Learned a long time ago if I don't get pleasure out of it, it's very likely my fault and not his. Can't just expect to leave it totally up to a guy to be responsible for my enjoyment.

>>17778136
Appointments? No. But frankly I'm easy AF. Chances are pretty good if someone talks me up , is passingly attractive, and they're not a piece of shit, I'm dtf.

>>17778934
Where do you live?

>>17778891
It seems that you can handle it well. I'll add that you should make sure that you talk about irrelevant non-sex related stuff with him after each intercourse and probably before starting.

You probably already get along if you want to fuck him, but he will appreciate seeing you're the same girl on bed. In general everything that makes you "human" and natural will be positive, since I can sure you he will be nervous at best and scared at worst.

What I'd want to get from a girl who knew is for her to just know that im going to be awkward.

If i made my own decisions about what to do they'll just end up being weird or influenced by porn or some other misplaced preconception.

If she was experienced but open minded and willing to wait for me to respond appropriately to what she'd guide me to do then i'd be ecstatic.

Oh, maybe where it happened would be important. Setting seems like it would be impactful but I wouldnt know what its merits would have to be.

glgl

>>17777991
Get on top and ride him while kissing.(if you're using condoms... otherwise he will cum fast and he won't say in time).

>>17779095

oh


also kissing is probably what im most self conscious about so theres that too

I was a virgin to the age of 23. When I finally got laid I was so nervous that I hyperventilated. Lost all feeling in my face and hands, nearly passing out. While fucking.

So please tell him to relax and control his breathing if he's anxious.