I've been seeing this girl, and we've been on 4 dates

just ask her over but don't put yourself out there. she may not be able to anyway and if you ask it like that then you may get it in your head it's because of what you said. if she can't don't spaghetti. if she does just be glad and after a few hours you can casually mention you're glad she came over because it brightened up your day.

do NOT ask her to come over because you feel vulnerable. she's not your mom.

Have you had sex yet?

>>17772253
No
>>17772251
>you may get it in your head it's because of what you said
That won't happen.

The issue is that I'm generally very chipper and upbeat around her. Is it okay to just invite her over and then be sad and mopey and clingy for the duration? I really could use the emotional and physical closeness right now.

>>17772257
Well then it's about time. Invite her over for netflix and chill. Have condoms ready.

>>17772259
I'm not really looking for sex.

>>17772316
I don't know what to tell you then mate. Maybe go build a nice teddy bear at build a bear workshop to snuggle and cuddle with.

>>17772323
That sounds nice actually.

>>17772316
Are you asexual? Or religious? Or 14?

>>17772332
Maybe I should clarify - I'm not looking for sex today. I'm absolutely not in the mood.

>>17772232
>this girl
The girl in the photo?

>>17772344
>implying I'm that retarded

>>17772232
the girl on the photo looks like my ex :O I got scared