ls it cheating if l send a message saying "it's over" to my gf before banging another girl? Do l wait until she sees the message?
>>17770093
What a disgusting pig
>>17770093
hey I know her.
>>17770100
>>17770102
Me on the left
you make me want to throw up
>>17770575
Why because I don't want to lie to my gf
>>17770093
No, as long as the message gets a blue mark then you are fine
>>17770093
Pahaha, grow a pair and call her, if you were her im guessing you would want to be called first
Maybe it's fine in a technical sense, but that's not what it's about. It's a scummy thing to do.
>>17770649
do what? having sex with someone you are attracted to?
>>17770652
Call her OP , treat others how you want to be treated, then give her one from me
>>17770652
No, I'm referring to calling you girlfriend right before sleeping with another girl to tell her it's over. Technically, it might be better because you're making a declaration before acting, but it still isn't morally cool.
Think about it like this: declaring war when all your soldiers are in a base is one thing, but declaring war when they're all on the border and sending them in without hesitation is scummy. Declaring war was just a formality for rude behaviour.
>>17770667
>Think about it like this: declaring war when all your soldiers are in a base is one thing, but declaring war when they're all on the border and sending them in without hesitation is scummy. Declaring war was just a formality for rude behaviour.
This is wrong. You declare war from a position of strength or absolute necessity.
Do you want to end it for any reason other than sleeping around?
>>17770670
Yeah, if you're Kaiser Wilhelm, but you shouldn't be trying to cause the most damage - it's a relationship. The analogy obviously doesn't carry us there.
>>17770718
what is that reason
>>17770093
Nope. It's all fine from the moment you sent the message if you got a reasonable expectation that it reaches her.
>>17770633
Why would it be any better?
"Hi, babe, I am about to fuck a hotter chick, oh and by the way, our relationship is over. Take care."
>>17770729
She sux
>>17770754
why'd u gf her, dummy
>>17770762
she's hot.
>>17770806
ur dumb
>>17770951
ur dumb
>>17770957
nah I'm smrt ur dumb ×^U
>>17770806
how hot
>>17770093
Yes, it makes you a piece of shit.
Shes probably still hoping to reconcile. Or that the message was about something else. You have to have a proper conversation to end a relationship.
If you're breaking up, why do you even care?
>>17770754
>>17770762
>>17770806
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>>17770963
the fuck is going on in here
>>17771014
You all got b8ed hard, thats whats happening.
>>17770093
It's generally a cowardly and scummy thing to do, but technically it isn't cheating.
>>17771025
oh no. i took it seriously! i thought those anons were having a serious conversation about the OP and his girl!
gosh, i'm very embarrassed right now..,
There's a term for it now; ghosting. Just live your life normally while pretending she doesn't exist. Eventually you'll forget about her.