>gf, being a woman, gravely insulted me during one of her

>>17767841
>you need to show me that I can actually trust you with these things, they're important to me
>if you can't realize how important they are, then you aren't taking this seriously enough
some shit like that idk

What did she say?

>>17767841
talk to her about it. say that its been weighing on your mind and that it still bothering you. And while you say you "forgave her" it seems like that was in word only and that there's still some wounds that you need to heal. Time heals all wounds but that's only after you bandage them.

the ones that squeeze your personal pressure points during fights are the evil ones.

>>17767841
Bruv this is how all women work. My wife still does this to me everytime we fight. You'll never get used to it.

>>17767841
if you don't bring it up and put your foot down about it she'll just do the same thing next time you get into a fight. whenever she gets all depressed about it and whinges on about "I'm so sorry... I understand if you want to break up" you gotta make it clear that if she does that sort of thing again your done. she'll grow the fuck up like a real adult real quick or you'll have more money left over in the bank every month from then on.

>>17767957
She said "you probably talk to your friends about me like you do about your bosses." I don't talk about my own life too often, but when work gets me down I do tell her about it. This kind of shit makes me even more reluctant to open up about my life. And I'm not a catty schoolgirl that gossips to my friends when I have fights with her

>>17768114
That's not too bad.

>>17768147
Story of my life. Things affect me very much, but when I say it out loud, it sounds like nothing. Ditto for work woes

>>17768246

In this case mate I would keep that in mind because to me that really doesnt sound bad at all and even seems like a concern a partner might genuinely have if youve indicated it somehow, intentionally or not.

She probably has forgotten it completely but only because it really doesnt seem severe at all.