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I found out today that one of my best friends and my ex girlfriend had sex this past weekend. We had only been broken up for 3 weeks. I really don't know how to feel about it. Part of me is upset that they'd have sex so soon after out breakup, it makes me feel so devalued (we dated for a year and a half for reference). I feel so worthless that I can be so easily forgotten after that long. I'm not mad at either of them but instead I just feel numb and more along then when she left me. What the fuck do I do now?
I know that best course of action with this is to work on moving past her and living day by day but it's hard. Having her leave me a week before my birthday, which sucks ass every year but this has been the worst.
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>>17767722
That's not your bestfriend
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>>17767725
this
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>>17767725
This. Friends don't sit around waiting for your sloppy seconds. You may not be mad at him, but the numbness is a sign that you recognise that what he did was shitty. Ditch him and get better friends.
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>>17767725
this. also, since I'm already giving the personification of an ellipses advice a few threads over, I'll tell you the same thing. drink till you don't give a fuck, maintain that perspective on the issue, don't maintain the drinking.
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She might have fallen out of love with you way before she dumped you, though. She also might be fucking around because she wants to bury the relationship for good.
Having casual sex is honestly one of the best ways to let go of a relationship. I couldn't get over my ex for like...four months until I started fucking people.
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>>17767760
>She might have fallen out of love with you way before she dumped you, though.
I'd call this rather more likely than "might have".
You will probably never know exactly how long it took her to get over you, OP. It feels like three weeks because you knew about three weeks, but those were only the last three weeks. She almost certainly actually started at some point well before then.
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>>17767722
Son we do not define ourselves through the actions of the morally deficient people around us. You're gonna be all right my man.
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