how do I fix my needy self,
>met a girl
>kinda hit it off
>start hooking up and talking everyday
>eventually begin to sperg out as per usual
> yesterday she tells me I need to relax after said sperging
I realize that she is probably annoyed with me, have to see her later in one of my classes, how do I salvage this/ act like a normal human being who doesn't act like a 12 year old around girls when I see her.
>>17762109
do you yourself think that you are mature enough for a relationship? what do you think is your real motivation for wanting one (could it just be peer pressure or are you serious about it?)
how old are you?
>are mature enough for a relationship
Not OP but I hear this quite a bit, what does it even mean?
If someone knew they weren't mature enough, wouldn't that make them mature enough?
Anyways, is it the ability to not get jealous if they're talking to the opposite sex? Not having to argue over petty issues? Knowing when to listen and when to talk? Knowing when to actually argue?
To the OP, you salvage it by calming down. Give her space, otherwise you're gonna smother her and she'll leave.
What did you say to her to make her upset?
>>17762148
I'm 21 so i would hope so, my motivation is a combination of loneliness and wanting someone to share my experiences with. I am great when it comes to friendships, but I tend to put women on a pedestal when i become intimate with them
>>17762167
I was trying to hang out with her, honestly just wanted some cuddles, got a little butthurt when she left me on read.
>>17762109
bamp