Hey guys, it's been a few hours now since everything went down, and I'm still really upset over what happened. Almost two years now and she left me just like that, with no chances of ever trying again. She has feelings for someone else suddenly, and I'm all kinds of fucked. Me and her were beginning to grow slightly unstable, but we both did our best to fix things together, but I guess just like that things go south. What advice can you offer for someone going through such a tough time?
Take time to get over her, but don't be one of those "how do I get my ex back??" guys
>>17761434
Usually when something feels "sudden" or "just like that" it actually isn't. She's probably been feeling less engaged in the relationship for some time and has been moving on already, but you missed the signs. It happens, life goes on. Now you just give yourself time to get over it, do things to keep your mind off her, meet other people and keep busy. Some day in the future, you'll notice that you don't think about her much anymore. Time helps.
>>17761434
>beginning to grow slightly unstable
because she had another guy on the line. the relationship was long over for her you just didn't know it yet
>>17761434
Talk to your friends, family. Let them support you while you're going through this rough spot.
>>17761529
More likely it means they were having incompatibilities in the relationship, don't try to kick a guy while he's down.
My ex was shocked when I left even though I gave him my emotions and thoughts on a platter. There was never guess work with me and he still didn't get it.
Anons are right, time will heal you. Sorry about the heartbreak.
>>17761565
not trying to kick the guy when down but let him know he likely didn't do or not do anything she just got some attention she liked from a guy she met and pursued that and the person in the way she took it out on was OP.