Hey /adv/
Haven't talked to anyone in about 3 months. I use barbs quite often but I am trying to find a hobby. I went on tinder just to talk to someone.
A girl I knew had it. I spazed out a bit and messaged her on facebook.( I've done stuff like that before) I thought I could talk to her about stuff in HS and I'm sure she just laughing behind my back though.
I want to make friends so I don't so stuff like that. I tried moving to Perth for like more people higher chance of finding a group I like.
My problem is I'm too sad to start making friends?
I don't like weed, smoking is gross, but it's something I could substitute for harder stuff. It might help with my social skills?
I want to be normal person
Go to school, get a job. That's what normal people do.
>>17759888
I dropped out of university when my dad died, I kept taking stuff more frequently until I was too afraid to leave the house.
Should I try again?
>>17759882
Don't overthink it. Don't expect an instant connection. Don't think rejection is the worst thing ever.
Talk to people at work. Join a gym. Do something, anything, outside of your house. And just talk. Don't expect anything, just talk.
Eventually you'll make friends.
>>17759882
Why would weed magically make you normal? Practice makes you improve, however. You suck at socialising because you never do it, you gotta find a way out of isolation to improve. I'd suggest seeking professional help to find healthy coping mechanisms and tips on improving.
>>17759890
Yeah, that's what normal people do.
>>17759932
I'm applying now for my local university
>>17759901
>>17759891
Thanks
>>17759949
That's the spirit, you'll be a functioning person in no time! A job (any job) is good for just socializing you. So you can see what "normal" is and how to act.
>>17759882
>I want to be normal person
i thought this once so i improved my confidence and social skills. i realized that most people are boring, lazy and ignorant.
>>17759968
this
Sociality really isn't worth the price of admission unless you just like mindless fucking or self destruction all the time. Find a couple of good ones and stick with 'em.