I can't have her and I'm coming to accept that now.

>>17758545
Does she know about your feelings?

>>17758561

I don't know but I haven't told her how I feel.

>>17758561
>>17758567

This is what I'm essentially asking. Should I tell her how I feel and this is why I don't want to spend time with her anymore?

>>17758567
So how do you know you can't have her?

You're already ready to end your friendship so it's not like you ahve anything to lose

>>17758584

There's someone else

>>17758599
If you're hurt by spending time with her, then stop. If / When she asks why, just tell her the truth.
That's what I'd do (actually, that's what I did a few years back being in your situation).

>>17758624

How did it go for you? Did You feel happier?

>>17758636
Not immediately.
After sometime I stopped torturing myself with "what if..." type of thought, and then I was really happier.
We never talked again though.

>>17758545
you don't have to confess shit it won't make any difference just stop spending so much time talking or seeing her.

>>17758739
Almost no difference: she will not try to meet.

>>17758545
Confessing is kinda pathetic (sorry), you just have to end it because it's going to drag you down further and further in the long run.

>>17758545
Don't confess! Ask her out, but be subtle.

In the worst case she will not want see you again. Which is probable the best thing to do anyway.

>>17758770

How do I end it without confessing?

>>17758949
Just stop hanging together.

>>17759023

We're in the same social group.