I can't really get a rock hard erection when im with my girlfriend. I'm not saying I can't get hard, or i can't fuck etc, i can, it's not that bad, but it just doesn't get fully erect, it doesn't totally stand up on its own if i lie flat.
However when im home masturbating it does, it's rock hard, stands up full.
The issue isn't psychological, i feel fully relaxed with my girlfriend and very horny, yet it just doesn't go 100%. At first i thought it's probably due to all the moving about, fucking takes a lot of effort and all that physical excercise would mean it's harder to maintain a 100% hard erection. But then i noticed even when im just sat or laid and she's sucking/jerking me, it still isn't 100% hard, more like 85% at most.
It's very frustrating, it feels like im not getting the most out of it and there seems to be no reason why.
Is this the same for anyone else and is there anything i can do about it?
>>17758505
lol
its gonna get worse when you get older
feel bad for your gf if she sticks around.
Maybe try chemical induced erection?
>>17758505
at least you have a girlfriend
>>17758505
Are you maybe used to watching lots of porn when masturbating so perhaps you are missing the visual side of things when you are close and fucking. Also the inside of her vagina and mouth are softer and wetter so might not feel like the death grip you give your cock. Maybe consider having gentle wanks for a few weeks with less porn and by gentle that can be using lube etc and just making it more wet like when inside a pussy or mouth.
I don't mean to offend, but maybe you are a little bit gay, or your girlfriend doesn't satisfy you?
Have you been with guys? That would rule out one possibility. Or maybe your girlfriend is not sexy in the way you came to expect from women?
>>17758796
This, gaming, porn or any other adiction causes your brain to desensitise, real life stuff doesnt give enough dopamine anymore. I have the exact same thing. I stayed clear of porn for 2 weeks now, it seems to improve somewhat though it's far from over.