How can you be friendly to girls without being "friendly",

>>17752127

you are over thinking this. instead of approaching every interaction like you have to get it right, approach it with simply wanting to experiment and learn. you'll have more fun.

and whatever you do keep in mind that htere is no magical code to crack. girls are not robots running the same software. pressing all the buttons the same way everytime wont make a girl open up her legs or her heart.

99% of the time girls dont 'friendzone' you because you did something wrong. its becuase they just arent into you. its the default state for the world.

imagine going up to every single guy you meet and asking to be friends with them. would you get mad that they just arent your type of friend? you shouldn't.

Have a spine, take action, don't just be all talk.

Escalate situations, don't just sit on your hands hoping she takes a hint.

This shit is not something ANYONE will ever be able to fully explain to you, the only way you will learn is if you go out, experiment, and learn on your own.

Go take actions, even if it means you fuck up and fail, and actually learn.

>>17752127
Short of it is OP. If more than one girl has told you this on more than one occasion then.......you're ugly. But you seem like a decent dude, so they're saying to you "yeah I'd be friends with you, you're cool. But you ain't fucking me"

>>17752127
You have to actually give them some indication you're interested in something more than friendship. They aren't mind readers. If all you're being is friendly it's not unreasonable for them to think that's all you want. Hell, it's seen as stuck up for a girl to assume any more than that.

Ask them on a date, flirt, whatever. Only sure fire way to make sure your motives get across is if you communicate them.

>>17752150

and even then they'd have no obligation to act on it.

it sucks but its mens job to make a move. girls even if they like you will just wait and wait and eventually move on to someone else if you dont make a move.

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>>17752200
>girls even if they like you will just wait and wait and eventually move on to someone else if you dont make a move.

>mfw a girl has liked me for over a decade and i've liked her but been too timid to say anything
>mfw she has fucked a bunch of different dudes in that time
>mfw she still likes me
>mfw I'm put off her due to her past now

If I wasn't so timid things might have turned out different. I'm looking forward to my wizard powers though...

>>17752131
>99% of the time girls dont 'friendzone' you because you did something wrong. its becuase they just arent into you. its the default state for the world

Maybe he means girls that are into you, but think you're not into them. At that point flirting would work though.