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Can guys have a gay experience and still be completely straight? I've always had a feeling my husband did something with a guy. He would ask me when we were dating and after we got married what I'd think if a guy fucked another guy in the ass. Turns out he has. It was around the time he met me and we weren't dating because I friendzoned him. He went to a party and drank but wasn't drunk. There was a gay guy there and he asked him if he'd try sex with a guy. The gay guy sucked his dick and put straight porn for him to get hard. Then put a condom on and let the guy sit on his dick and only his tip went in until he stopped it. Then people came into the room and it stopped. He said he tried it because the first time he had sex with his prom date on prom night didn't go the way he thought and he didn't enjoy it. She forced him. He was 18 and she was 23 and cheated on him but he forgave her or whatever. He said it was so dry and it made him wonder if he was gay even though he always wanted to do it. A while after we got married he was emailing females on craiglist and confessed to me it's how he gets off since a teenager. Also was messaging girls while dating me because he thought I was cheating and because he couldn't stand the fact I had my virginity taken away from me with a guy a met before him. I found evidence of him talking to other girls after I said yes to dating him. I feel like he ruined our relationship before I could ever not that I would. His affection feels insincere since months ago and I feel off after finding out. Idk if he honestly loves me or how I can tell and if his gay experience was just an experiment. He kinda forced having sex with me last night after he rejected me first and then wanted to once I left the bedroom. How can I tell what this relationship is anymore?
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>>17748427
To answer your question, yes, it's possible to have gay experiences without being gay. In that case, it sounds like he didn't go looking for gay sex, he was just handed an opportunity to stick his dick somewhere warm.
But his gay experience is the least of your problems, it sounds like he's deeply confused and unfit for a relationship in many ways. The online cheating is a much bigger deal than a random sexual encounter he had before you were together
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>>17748427
kinda. with your husbands issue its hard to say hes 100% straight, but he can potentially be 99% straight. you have to be at least 1% gay just to have some inkling to try it, even if its handed to you.
most men are at most 99% straight, and have at least a 1% gay edge to them.
how old are you guys? you sound awfully young and inexperienced to be married, and the fact that you guys have such issues already is troubling. you cant be that old if hes been using cl ads to masturbate since he was a teen,
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>Degenerates
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>>17748458
(Op) 23. Yeah pretty much, he has some serious issues with that stuff which he finally admitted last month because I wasn't surprised when I caught him again but at the same time he wanted me to catch him. He made it super obvious too and my confrontation about it came as no surprise and was expected. I don't understand. Like I signed us up for therapy since our insurance would cover couple counseling. He won't talk about it in there though. He lacks in communication. And honesty as well. Don't know if it's difficult for him to be honest with himself first or what's going on but it's definitely unfair to me since I have been very patient and honest with him.
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If girls can have multiple and still claim so, yes.
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>>17748453
(Op) At first the online thing was the bigger issue but now idk. The online email thing was like roleplay to him, I'd see the emails and he would make like a fantasy of his in the interaction with them. He'd read erotica people write and get off to that and I read it and it was odd... Idk if he's desensitized himself with his porn or what but I've tried to leave him before and he gets mentally unstable because he he really loves me and sex with me feels so right but his sexual desires all over the place?
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