Femanon here, going on a date with a boy who has had little attraction to anyone before me due to emotional issues. He views things like dates and kissing pragmatically. How do I convince him these things are nice and release good chemicals/warm him up a bit to romance?
>>17746941
suck his dick
>>17746954
He thinks sex is gross
>>17746959
why are you even bothering with him? this is a major red flag.
>>17746941
>pragmatically
don't use words that you don't know the meaning of hun.
>>17746941
Ummm, not to rain on your parade but could you describe said "emotional issues"?
If this guy ain't functioning very well from the start your gonna have a rough time, if he's just a little shy from past experiences thats ok.
>>17746994
This, if it's the former then perhaps he needs to work through that stuff before he's really ready to date. If it's the latter and he seems like a good dude then I guess just be patient, try to aim for low-key activities that don't put him under too much pressure. Reassess after a few weeks as to how things are going and whether it's worth sticking with it.
>>17746959
have you considered that he is asexual, and therefore you should respect that and leave him if he's not interested in sex, and you are
>>17746976
pragmatically as in he sees kissing as simple exchange of bodily fluids, you smooth-brain
>>17747007
he's a good dude. he's slowly been warming up to those things. the emotional issues = a simple fear pf intimacy.