Hey guys,
I posted about this a few days ago and got some solid responses but here is a little update;
>Went on a date with a girl last week
>Went really well; we made out towards the end of the date and got kind of "hot and heavy"
>Set up another date for this week (tomorrow)
>However conversations between her and on now seem weird
>She texted me once and we talked a bit
>I texted her a couple days ago but it didn't really go anywhere
>Plan on not meeting up with her tomorrow if she doesn't contact me
I don't get it, what went wrong? I thought the date went really well; the fact that we made out and were holding hands walking around says that to me, and she even texted me afterwards saying that she had a great time. Do girls normally flake this much? I know I should probably not worry about it and just move on but it's just... weird.
She probably met someone in that brief time that caught her attention and isn't sure who to pick. Happened to me before and is jarring at how fast things went from great to strange. Eventually I found out she was seeing another guy behind my back and I deleted her number.
>>17744403
That is a good possibilty. Bump for more replies.
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>>17744395
>Plan on not meeting up with her tomorrow if she doesn't contact me
Why?? Maybe she just isnt a big texter. At least see what shes like in person
If shes just as distant then or makes an excuse to get out of meeting up, you have your answer. Until then leave her alone and assume youre still on, lest you come across as clingy.
There are multiple reasons for this. She could be really shy if it's going towards serious. Insecurity can be a problem. Just try to talk to her. Maybe even ask her if she's alright. Since she's talking less lately. Don't completely ignore her because you never know until you ask and confirm right.
>>17744395
>Plan on not meeting up with her tomorrow if she doesn't contact me
This here is YOU flaking. Unless she said otherwise there's no reason to believe tomorrow is off. Don't sabotage yourself.
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>>17744614
Alright bruhs, so you're saying that I should text her right now?
I just texted her, wish me luck bros
Consider it statistically if you feel uncertain. 100% on no date if you ignore her. 50% (could be 1% for what i care for) chance on a date when contacting her and trying to get clarification. I'm not math teacher but that seems like a win win.
>>17744669
I did. It's been about 15 minutes and no responses lol
>>17744688
Why do you need a response? Isnt the date already set?