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I'm living with my ex, due to not being able to get out the lease and also money. After I broke it off, things were fine for a while. It's been a few months now and things have changed.
He's been acting inconsiderate and awful. Calls me bitch, tells me he doesn't care about what I have to say, that I'm annoying etc., and then turns around and asks me to make him a snack, for a ride to school or what's for dinner. Then it's more humiliations. Then some empty thank you's.
I'm trying to give him space and not risk too many interactions, but I'm really depressed. I feel useless, defeated and unloved. We dated and lived together for 5 years and I don't think he ever loved me.
What do I do to dig myself out of this hole?
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you can't sub-lease?
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>>17743995
this me
he's being abusive and disgusting. i'm not really sure *how* you can leave your living arrangements, but you definitely need to.
how much longer does the lease go for?
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>>17743995
I looked over the lease, trying to find an out. Only military deployment or injury can get you out of a lease here, and no subleasing allowed.
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>>17743997
It goes until July but he graduates in May. Hopefully.
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>>17743992
the problem is he did love you and the relationship is gone so he is trying to be a complete dick about it. the bad news for you is either join the millitary or stick it out. living with other people isnt always easy.
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>>17743992
OP Here:
>What do I do to dig myself out of this hole?
I mean, how do I get out of this without offing myself?
I'm already on meds for PTSD and it's been getting worse and worse since this behavior started. I can't see a therapist but I at least have my clonazepam for now. I got so angry I almost hit him last night. I went back to my room and just punched up my thighs instead.
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>>17743992
if you doubt he loves he he probably doesnt. if youre living with your ex you failed at life. what you do after doesnt really matter. just deal with the depression.
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>>17744026
bumping for some /adv/ on this guys
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