>meet girl
>hit it off
>she has a boyfriend
>keep hitting it off and seeing each other almost every other day
>one night, drink absinthe and get plastered
>we fuck
>tell close friends about situation
>they tell me I shouldn't date her because she cheated once and might cheat again
>keep fucking every time we meet (I'm bad)
>she tells me she's tired of her bf and can't connect on the same level as with me
>continue meeting up and fucking on the reg
>last week
>tells me "we can't keep doing this"
>apparently when I was extremely drunk I told her I wouldn't want to date
>no more sex
Apparently it's going much better with her bf now. My moral compass tells me I should be proud that she cut off the romantic aspect of our relationship, but I'm very attached and I think she is too. Consolation/scorn/advice is welcome. It's a weird situation and I want to know what the average outsider would think looking in.
>>17741311
Cheaters are nothing but problems.
now this guys gonna knock on your door the next time she is pissed at him.
>>17741311
On one hand, you dodged a bullet because your friends are bros and know a cheater always cheats again.
On the other hand, if the current bf isn't a complete pushover, he's eventually going to find out and will kick your ass
>>17741316
>>17741355
Thanks for the responses. I'm not worried about the bf.
>>17741355
>>17741316
>Going off on the guy your gf chose to fuck
Is this some sort af american thing?
If a girl wants to cheat, she's gonna cheat. This is not a case of the guy being "seductive" or anything like that, but comes from the girl who is thereby the main culprit.
>>17741501
If the guy she cheats with knows she's in a relationship, he is not without blame
>>17741501
>OP's post
>third thing he says is she has a boyfriend
He is just as in the wrong as the girl
>>17741505
All he did is fuck a girl that was going to fuck somebody