A married woman who I've been talking to told me she was

>>17738574
You have two possibilities here:

1. She's telling the truth and she legitimately regrets marrying who she did. In that case, feel it out, take it slow. Many people marry someone they don't really like, or they think being married will make everything better, or they think being married to someone will be different than dating them. People are stupid, whether they're in love or lying to themselves. I know the feeling of guilt, but honestly, you need to figure out whether or not she's real or not before you decide you're going to fuck her pre/post divorce.

2. She's lying, either about how happy you make her or her desire to leave him. Tons of wives start cheating but can never really make the move to divorce.

Again, you gotta feel her out. If it seems genuine, and you wanna be with her...lay out the groundwork for it to happen. If not, and you're not gonna fuck her, leave it alone.

Never done this but it seems risky because she will probably think you're obligated to be with her if she divorces her husband.

Off the cuff, I would personally tell her that you're gonna give her two months to decide what she wants to do. You don't want her to divorce her husband because of you. You want her to make the decision independently, and, once done, maybe see about a date or something.

>>17738600
>>17738599
Thanks for the advice. It does sound like what you described. She said she married him because she felt like things would get better after the fact and they never did I just told her to give it a couple of months and make the decision on her own. I told her that I don't want to be responsible for breaking them up. I'm gonna take it as slow as possible. Still feel like an ass kinda but if she's telling the truth I guess they would have broken up eventually anyways.

>>17738629
>if she's telling the truth I guess they would have broken up eventually anyways

This. And if she's actually miserable, and you're actually the man of her dreams or whatever, you shouldn't feel bad.

>>17738574
>She's telling me I make her happy and she wants to leave him to be with me
No she doesn't. Anyone who cares about her would make her happy and she'd want to leave him to be with anyone else. It's not about you, it's about the fact that you give her attention when her husband doesn't. If it were someone else instead of you, she'd be telling them the same thing.

>>17738633
This is also a big possibility. I guess I'll just be her friend these next couple of months and if she decides to leave him then we can take it slow. Nobody in my life even knows this girl. I just feel shitty for flirting with her at all

Hey op, take it from a cheater. A vast majority of times the couple will not split up. I've said the same thing to this one girl, I thought I meant it. But I stayed in this relationship where I feel trapped and unimportant. (I have my own reasons). Op just don't do it. It's not worth it.

>>17739368
Well I already told her I will not go with her unless she leaves him. I told her not to let that affect her decision. I want her to think and make an independent decision but I won't be a part of it until she leaves him.

>>17738574
>she was unhappy with her husband even before they got married.
She's bad news. What makes you think she won't be equally vapid with you too? Not to mention you already feel guilty without having even done anything. Keep your distance.