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TL;DR i have an insanely huge crush on a friend of mine. I have absolutely no idea what to do. Thing is though, i have no idea if she feels similarly. I like her enough that I'd like to become a thing with her but I also like her enough that i enjoy her friendship. Yes, i know i cant have it both ways but, it is what it is. Im afraid to ask her out because she might stop talking to me altogether should she not feel the same.
So, how can subtley indirectly get her to tell me how she feels toward me? We arent so close that we see each other everyday 24/7 but whenever we do see each other we hang around each other
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>>17736377
Just ask her.
Think about it like this. If she's such a good friend, and your positions were reversed, and you didn't like her... and she asked you - you'd let her down easy and stay friends, right?
So if she stops talking to you altogether, write that bitch off and move on.
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>>17736386
Well hiw do i ask her out then? I can't just go up to her and ask out of nowhere. It has to be casual and not forced at all. I learned my lesson the last time i tried to tell someone i liked her
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>>17736427
>I can't just go up to her and ask out of nowhere.
Yes, yes you can.
Again, if the situation was reversed and she went up to you out of nowhere and asked you out, what would you say?
>I learned my lesson the last time i tried to tell someone i liked her
What lesson? That she might say no? That's a good lesson. That's where you go "Oh well," - that's how you find out, and move on.
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>>17736438
Well i learned that asking out friends can be a bit of a gamble. They may end up not wanting to be anywhere around you anymore. And having that happen with this particular girl i like right now, would sting,hard.
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>>17736377
Send her this song
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hyj4JFSErrw
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